The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast

Ep. 201 - The 2 Words That Are More Impactful Than "I Love You" in Marriage

Michelle Purta Episode 201

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Are you craving deeper emotional connection, more intimacy, and stronger partnership in your marriage—especially while juggling motherhood?

In this episode we’re diving into why “thank you” is more powerful than “I love you” when it comes to keeping your marriage strong and satisfying.

Many women feel unseen and unappreciated by their spouses, especially under the weight of parenting and daily responsibilities. But did you know that gratitude—not just communication or love—is one of the strongest predictors of marital satisfaction?

Whether you’re a mom feeling burnt out from doing it all or a wife longing to feel valued by your husband, this episode gives you practical ways to bring appreciation into your marriage. You'll also learn how to ask for gratitude without sounding like you're complaining or nagging.

🎧 Listen in to discover:

  • Why “I love you” might not be enough to feel emotionally connected
  • How expressing (and receiving) appreciation impacts your relationship
  • The research-backed link between gratitude and marital satisfaction
  • Easy, daily ways to express gratitude that go beyond the basics
  • How to ask for appreciation in a way that builds intimacy—not tension

If you want your marriage to feel more like a team—more respectful, connected, and joyful—this episode is a must-listen.

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Additional Resources:

  • Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)
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  • Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!