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Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Motherhood changes everything, including your marriage.
If you’re a mom who feels stuck having the same arguments on repeat, disconnected from your partner, or like you’ve slipped into roommate mode filled with resentment and tension, you’re not alone and your relationship isn’t broken.
Welcome to The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast.
I’m Michelle Purta, mom of 3, marriage coach, and I help couples understand and shift the communication patterns that keep them stuck so they can rebuild connection, strengthen their partnership, and feel like an "us" again.
Each week, you’ll learn how to navigate marriage and motherhood with better communication, emotional awareness, and practical conflict resolution tools that actually work in real life.
We go beyond surface-level advice and focus on what’s really driving the disconnection like reactive cycles, emotional shutdown, miscommunication, and unresolved resentment.
This podcast is for couples who want to:
- break the cycle of repeating arguments
- communicate clearly without shutdowns or blowups
- resolve conflict in a way that builds connection instead of resentment
- move out of roommate mode and back into a connected partnership
You’ll learn the skills to shift your patterns, improve communication, and create a more connected, supportive marriage while you're knee deep in parenthood.
Because a strong relationship isn’t about avoiding conflict. It’s about knowing how to move through it together.
If you’re ready to stop having the same fight and start feeling like a team again, you’re in the right place.
Ready for deeper support? Learn more about marriage coaching here: https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Ep. 211 - Is It Just A Rough Patch Or Does Your Marriage Need Help?
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Are you and your spouse just navigating a rough patch—or is your marriage calling out for help?
This is one of the most common questions I get from couples, especially after kids enter the picture. When things feel hard, it can be difficult to know whether to wait it out or to take action.
In this episode, I walk you through the signs of a rough patch vs. deeper issues in your marriage. I break down what each looks like, what questions to ask yourself, and how to tell if your marriage would benefit from getting outside support.
What's covered in this episode:
- What qualifies as a “rough patch” in marriage
- Signs your marriage may be struggling
- Key questions to help you figure out where your relationship stands
- What to do if you realize you need help
Whether you’re tired, checked out, or just not sure what’s going on—this episode will give you clarity on what to do next.
Ready to feel like a team again and set your marriage up for success?
Book a clarity call to get the support you and your marriage deserve!
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Additional Resources:
- Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage? Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)
- Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
- Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!