The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast

Ep. 231 - From Roommates to Lovers: Daily Habits To Stay Connected

Michelle Purta Episode 231

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Happy marriages aren’t about luck—they’re about habits.

If you’ve been feeling like roommates or co-parents instead of a couple, you’re not alone. Parenthood, work, and responsibilities can slowly edge out connection. But the truth is, happy couples don’t coast—they intentionally practice small, consistent habits that keep their connection alive.

In this episode, I share the 4 key habits happy couples do differently, why they work, and how you can begin weaving them into your own marriage—even if you feel exhausted, disconnected, or stuck in “roommate mode.”

These aren’t grand gestures or even the occasional date nights—they’re simple, doable practices you can start today. And when you repeat them consistently, they become second nature, creating long-term intimacy and resilience in your marriage.

If your marriage feels heavy, serious, or distant, this episode will show you a way forward.

🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned in this Episode

  • Ep. 213: The Phases Every Marriage Goes Through (and What Each One Needs)
  • Ep. 227: Fighting Fair: Setting Ground Rules for Conflict
  • Clarity Call - if you're ready for support to work through communication issues, resentment, or disconnection, schedule your free clarity call here!

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  • Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)
  • Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
  • Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!