Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids

Ep. 262 - Feeling Like Roommates Doesn't Mean Your Marriage Is Failing

Michelle Purta Episode 262

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Feeling like roommates after becoming parents is one of the most common — and most misunderstood — phases of marriage.

If your relationship feels more operational than romantic..

In this episode, I dive into why feeling like roommates doesn’t mean your marriage is broken — it means connection has been deprioritized. She breaks down how parenting shifts things between you two, how emotional distance builds slowly through habits, and why waiting for “more time” rarely fixes things.

You’ll learn:

  • Why the roommate phase happens after kids
  • The subtle ways couples drift apart without realizing it
  • What happens when you accept disconnection as “normal”
  • Why awareness alone doesn’t create change
  • How couples rebuild connection without forcing romance

If you’re craving more closeness, ease, and partnership — and you’re ready to stop settling for “fine” — this episode will help you see what’s possible.

Ready to actively rebuild connection instead of staying stuck? Book a Clarity Call to learn how getting support through marriage coaching can help you!

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